Matrimony by Wale ft Usher has to be my song of the year. It’s the only song till date that I can listen to more than once every damn day.
The gods and angels must have personally delivered the lyrics to that song, especially the narrative in the video version of the song.
“Getting engaged is like getting, uh, it’s the first hill of the roller coaster
And you hear those clickers, the loud sound – this really violent, metal
‘Chunka-chunka-chunka’ and you go, “What, what’s going on here,” You know?
“Boy this thing is really, really goes high!”
This quote captures what I always imagine when I hear so, so and so got engaged…
I think; did fear run through her mind when the question was asked?
Did she think:
- This is forever and I can never leave?
- Do I really want to do this?
- O gosh, when do I start shopping???
Wale asks ” Even if you make plans you never think you’re really ready for marriage?”
A lot of people do not know this: marriage would always test you, test your character; no matter how calm, sweet, strong, or in love you are, marriage is the iron that sharpens the other iron – you.
MARRIAGE WOULD TEST YOU
Seinfield – who is the narrator goes on to answer: No, it’s uh, it’s like any growth. You are no- you can’t be ready for it because it’s growth, it’s gonna be new. It’s gonna be new. You’re gonna have a new life, you’re gonna be a new person.
Intro
Couldn’t make you wait forever, for forever
This is forever
I gotchu
THIS!!!
If a couple did not start dating at a very young age, if they had good jobs at the start / early into the relationship, dude why are you making her wait forever? read 8/10 years, let her go! Marry her.
If there’s a question of my heart, you’ve got it
It don’t belong to anyone but you
If there’s a question of my love, you’ve got it
Baby, don’t worry, I’ve got plans for you
Baby, I’ve been making plans, oh love
Baby, I’ve been making plans for you
Baby, I’ve been making plans
Baby, I’ve been making plans for you
Share those plans, do not make her do guess work, share them – communicate.
I feel like all the worries and temptations Wale goes on to rap about were never really shared with the woman he is / was in a relationship with but it came down to the crux so he had to express himself. Let it all out and shit.
A lot of guys do that – “man up” and keep their worries to themselves. All this does is make a woman fill her imagination with the funniest images and most ludicrous stories ever. (why do women do this?) but if let in to the “thoughtsville” of their partner sometimes, things could be better, all other things being equal off course.
I especially love when the narrator goes…
“I always feel like I’m a planet, and these other women that are, kinda moving through this solar system with me, and, marriage is like you decide to jump off of your planet, across to another planet, and you can only do it when one planet passes real close. And you look and you go, “Hey, I think I can jump across.”
Marriage is a risk, jump carefully.
In conclusion,
Wale thinks this is the realest shit he ever wrote, me thinks this is the realest, most resonating shit I ever heard.